If you want to get different result, don’t go by your way. Your way has gotten you to this situation.
If you want to change or get the things the way you want, see other who have already gotten there, take their approach as the guiding rule, follow their advice and experiment it with your real life.
Well, it might not work with your life, but you will find a way to move forward.
PS: Happy Nepalese New Year 2077 B.S.