All of these are very common to most of us.
They are like a pills that just alleviate the stress of failure nothing more nothing less.
We blame others when we screw up something. We complain others when something wrong happens and we try to justify and rationalize the situations of blaming and complaining.
What we focus on, strengthens…
Blame, Justification and complain all happens when we are doing wrong. So if we keep focusing on these craps, we keep attracting wrong things and become victims of our own decisions