What man actually needs is not a tensionless state but rather the striving and struggling for a worthwhile goal, a freely chosen task.
-Viktor E. Frankl, Holocaust survivor, author of Man’s Search for Meaning
Life exists to be enjoyed and feel good about ourselves. Every person has their own vehicle of achieving those which depends on their belief system and mindsets. Those vehicles will change upon time as we encounter different experiences.
Some people choose for striving and struggling towards their goal where they find themselves enjoyable while other people go for easy and shortcuts.
Neither of them is a problem; it’s the way they live and its completely personal.
Some people criticize on the focus of self-love and enjoyment as selfish or hedonists; but it’s neither. It’s just the way of living and it’s totally acceptable.
Some people argue life is only about continual learning, exploring, exploring and growing.
Other relate life as morality.
Well, it’s a not ending debate.
Morality is simply the attitude we adopt toward people we personally dislike.