The words we speak shape the action we do. There must be some internal connection between the words and the action.
This is where I believe motivation comes from. When you get the motivation, you become inspired and the action you do changes (even though it might be short-term).
But the scariest thing is when others’ word start to change your action. When this happen you start to seek other people’s attention aggressively. You think for shortcut in the road which has no shortcut and then you get stuck.
Words can change the action but it should be yours not others. So, start changing your words to change your actions.